7 Sexy Traits Of Irresistible Men

It takes more than rock-solid abs to reach
the top of the sexiness charts.
We’re not going to lie. A man boasting abs
chiseled to perfection and biceps that pop
just enough when flexed (without shredding
shirts He-Man style) will no-doubt turn our
heads. And even if caught mid check-him-
out glance, we’re not about to look away.
Fit, toned bodies are the result of hard work
and dedication to a healthy lifestyle. We
certainly pay homage to that. But for a man
to achieve a skyrocketing score on the
sexiness scale there’s got to be more to him
than physical assets. Throw in these seven
traits and he’s guaranteed irresistible.
1. He Has Mastered The Wink. We don’t
know how they learn the technique but some
guys really have the Richard Gere wink down
pat. There’s an art to this wink and getting
it right can be tricky. It’s more suave and
smoky than cheeky and laughable. He’s
comfortable giving this signal and has the
timing to the tee. Done right, this move is
pure sexy. Caveat: The wink can be tricky to
pull off. Practice first.
2. He Radiates Calm. It’s sending shivers up
our spine just thinking about how powerful a
man’s calm presence can be. Neurotic or
hyper or frenzied is stressful, no matter how
busy the man or what his excuse. But if he’s
got cool written all over his face and his
gaze is pure steady and peaceful his s*x
appeal will shoot through the roof (think old-
school James Dean). We women can
unwillingly fall into the trap of over-worrying
about things we can’t control. A man who
sets us at ease by reminding us how things
always manage to work out in the end is
absolutely hot.
3. He Takes Care Of Himself. Look, we’re not
saying it’s a certain height or build that
matters. If he keeps his body in relatively
good shape this shows us he knows how to
take care of himself. It also clues us in that
he sets health as a priority. What’s more, if
he’s active, working out even a few times a
week, the endorphins his body is producing
during gym sessions are sure to keep him in
good spirits and energized. The bottom line:
If he takes good care of himself he’s likely to
take good care of his partner (or at least
help keep her motivated to do so). That’s a
4. He’s Got Style. We don’t want to give the
wrong idea here. This is not to say he has to
be one certain type of style, and that
mimicking a prescribed “it” style is a surefire
path to sexy (whether that’s clean-cut,
tattooed-up or punked-out). Not at all.
Rather, what’s attractive in a guy is that he
has a style at all, a way of dressing that
reflects in some way who he is and what
he’s into. A guy who wakes up hum-drum
and throws the same dingy shirt and pair of
jeans on every day? Not sexy. At all.
5. He Has A Manly Scent. Sounds so
animalistic, we know. No man can control
his natural scent, and it turns out our DNA
compatibility dictates who smells good to us,
anyway. But, every guy can augment his
essence with a spritz (one will do just fine)
of cologne. As long as it’s not overdone, a
man with a strong scent has the potential to
drive women wild.
6. He Is Affectionate. Though we women try
not to let on, affection (be it an arm around
the shoulder or hand on the leg) lights us up
like fireflies. Consider it your secret weapon.
By affection, we do mean to include
expressing your feelings through words, such
as “I love you.” It’s amazing how many hot
men fall short of sexy just for lack of
articulating and showing their love. Let’s put
it this way: There are guys who reach out to
their partner while driving, and there are guys
who keep both hands on the wheel and eyes
straight ahead. The lads of the former group
qualify for sexy.
7. He Laughs Loud, Hard, Often. No news
flash here. Comedy is highly enticing. It’s
worth noting though that there are different
types of humor. The insecure comedy that’s
based on putting others down or calling
them names doesn’t gibe with us. But give
us fun-loving, belly-jiggling jokes and
laughter and you’ll head straight to the top
of the sexiness charts.
Readers, did we miss anything?


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